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6 Rules: How To Guide A Happy Relationship?
Posted by Roy in Communication, Love, Relationship on January 1, 2010
Maybe the pessimist will say, “If Titanic can sink then what is a relationSHIP?” It’s my advice to them: “Please, shut up!” Maybe a relationship can be hit with some cyclic waves but still it can sail through, having happy ending. Here are the SIX rules to guide your relationSHIP to the satisfying destination what I call “ACCEPT.”
A [ATTRACTION]: Nothing comes closer if they are not attracted to each other. In science it’s the opposite but in real-life, it’s both—sometimes opposite, sometimes similarity. Find out what attracts you in that person, appreciate it and find new ways to make it more attractive.
To Understand—TRY Listening Better
Posted by Roy in Attitude, Communication on November 11, 2009
Nobody can’t make things happen until they can make others understand what they want to do and why. Yes, communicate well with people shortens the gap between where you are and where you want to be in today’s life.
But remember, communication is more than just talk.
Listening is as important to communication as speaking. So today, I’m going to share how to become a better listener. Here are the most important techniques:
- Show interest. (“Really …” “Then what you did ….”)
- Encourage the speaker to develop competence and motivation to solve the problem independently. (“I can feel it, when I have faced it I did ….”)
- Listen to clarify. (“Do you mean …?” “Is this the problem?”)
- Listen to be neutral. (“I see.” “Uh-huh.” “That’s interesting.”)
- Listen to bring discussion into focus. (“These are the ideas you have mentioned …” “Your priorities are …”
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